Hello there -
A. Bumping when your post is still on the first page is an almost sure way to be ignored. I'm sure everyone here would like a snappy answer, but resources are limited (see next).
B. Questions on these forums are mostly answered a very small group of volunteers, many of whom have busy professional schedules. They also sometimes have 'lives' and 'families'. Some even work on more than one Open Source project.
C. Some questions require research, and 'link-seeking' (which also takes time)
D. As my friend Altrea would point out, a pleasant salutation is also considered good manners.
E. There is always the option of paying a 'free-lancer' to help you fix your issue if you are in a hurry.
Now about your issue -
The server is not responding (or the local server's socket is not correctly configured).Connection for controluser as defined in your configuration failed."
My guess is you upgraded and 'smashed' your PMA user. Possible causes - transferring over (or not) the 'pma' user during the upgrade. This is dependent on how you did your upgrade. Did you export/import the 'mysql/user' table?? Do you have the config.inc.php from your old installation?
You can regain access (probably) - you will probably have to look at the MySQL data.
A. by 'fixing' config.inc.php http://docs.phpmyadmin.net/en/latest/config.html
B. Using the MySQL command line interface to access your MySQL data OR install the MySQL Workbench tool.http://www.mysql.com/products/workbench/