OK - I have a few questions
1. Does the Control Panel show a 'Green Light' (running) for Apache, MySQL or Filezilla?
2. Did you try restarting your machine after making them into services?
If yes, they should auto-start and there is no need to do anything in the CP to get them going.
If no, try restarting the machine
3. Did you use the 'auto-start' in configuration options previous to making them into services? (config button)
4. Did you run the CP via (run as administrator)???